Journey

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Budget Hotels

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Fabulous Restaurant

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Come to the Library? Tell Me Why

Nandita came regularly to our library. Such a delight to see someone come and hang out there. I saw her lost in a book many times. She came to the movies we screened and participated in the discussions. So one day I asked if she wanted to be a member at our library. She looked surprised and answered with a question: "What does your library offer me that fancy bookstores don't?" As I started to blurt out "... but - " she clarified further: "They are even air-conditioned".

I was speechless. I muttered something, I think, about the library not trying to compete with a bookstore, apples and oranges; it sounded ineffective, even to my own ears.But that "but" stayed with me. And as I sit down to write, it makes me think. My friends and I run a library in Bandra. Why?

I think of all the children who come to the library to flop down on our cushions and flip through whatever they have picked off the shelves. And the parents who diligently bring these kids, happy that there is, at last, a library in the vicinity. Some of these parents don't read themselves, but are keen that their children do. Other parents, readers themselves, take the chaise-longue (comfy, blue, inviting) - and never move!

Then anyone who's 13 and above makes a beeline for the grown-ups' section. There's the teenage-new age version of the Magic Faraway Tree, - remember Enid Blyton's Moonface, Silky, the Slippery-slip, the Lands that appeared in its highest branches?... Only here, indoors, there's a sturdy little ladder that takes you to the most fascinating of lands - through the books you have picked on your way up to the loft. Books on various subjects, that catch your fancy... look around, take your pick. (cushions, lights, fans supplied).

And what about those members who regularly come and tell us which books they are longing to read? We make haste and buy them - then call and tell the aforementioned member, who is on our doorstep even before we hang up. Okay, almost.

But I still felt I had not found an answer to her question.

A library, I wanted to start a library. And she had just asked me why.

As my mind walked through the roomy room, I knew. I knew what a library offers you that a bookstore doesn't.

It's like your sister's baby: you get to play with, kiss and make much of the fat dumpling, you take her out to the park, you listen to her stories and laugh and cry with her, you are her travelling buddy in her imaginary world and at the end of the day, you hand her back to her mother. Lovely...

A library offers you books that you like, lets you take them home and when you bring them back, it takes care of them for you.

A library keeps the dust off the pages, covers your books and gets new ones for you when the old copy is worn or torn. The entire collection is yours to read - and share. When you bring back a book, all fired up with what you've read, you may just run into another member of the library, who could not stand it. "Whattt?? You couldn't... " Time for discussion, passionate disagreement, happy endorsement, new suggestions, leading you down the road not taken.

Sometimes, in this busy, noisy, ever-connected life, you need a place to escape. An island of peace. Home? Not really - the fruitwalla has rung the doorbell, is telling you it is his "boni ka time". The loo? Not anymore.Your mobile is precariously poised on the flush tank. Then? Shangri-la? - you ask, disbelieving.

It's the library - no mobiles here, the books need quiet. Calm. And so do you.

And lastly - remember we spoke about that baby? Well, the analogy still holds: when you fall in love with the baby, sorry book, and you can't bear to give her back to her mother, oops, to the library, - ah, that's when you need to get one of your own.

Then you go to that bookstore Nandita was talking about.

For everything else, come to the library.

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I Can Make You Smarter by Paul McKenna

Paul McKenna has written a series of books some of which I have read. He is a master of hypnosis and uses self-hypnosis in the CD's accompanying the series of books. He also uses NLP and other exercises, the book is backed by scientific research into using your brain more effectively. This book aims to increase your various intelligences from verbal to spiritual. There are mind maps and summaries after each chapter for a quick recap and learning review.

Yesterday I spent an unusual day reading this book. I wasn't confined to my bed or being lazy, in fact I read the first chapter the night before and continued in the morning over my first cuppa. During the day I read between shopping and other chores and at 9.55pm I had finished the book.

It was an easy to read adventure on using your brain more effectively; one chapter led into the next so easily I didn't want to stop reading. There was one exception, a chapter on passing exams, well not being a student for me it was irrelevant, I'm not planning to take exams, but obviously very important to students reading this book.

There were exercises to practice within the pages and CD's, (if I hadn't previously, given them away to my student Granddaughter)! The CD's are to play at night to reinforce the exercises.

I have read several of Paul McKenna's other books but I have been more impressed by this one as I find brain development fascinating. The reason it appealed to me at the moment, is because I am trying to learn many new techniques in my business and I am not at all technical, in fact quite a technophobe and I thought it would help with the challenges! I will have to see the outcome when I have been practising the exercises for a while.

However things covered were: improving your memory, speed reading, better decision-making, and an excellent chapter with many aha moments on understanding where negative self-image developed and how to eliminate them and improve your learning potential hundred-fold, and much more.

It would be a great benefit to learn to touch type fast, speed read, and make better decisions, become technically adept and confident in my ability, improve concentration and easily remember peoples names, and perhaps many more skills; I'm up for the challenge.

There are chapters on how you can learn anything as learning is a natural ability, which age need not diminish. You are as capable of learning at 90 as 9 years old and there are scientifically proven exercises to keep your mind active in later years.

I need to get hold of the CD's and give the complete lessons a fair trial. It would seem this book could help everyone in all walks of life from students to business people, and people just wanting to improve their hobbies or sports, or even set up a business. Everyone could find some benefits within its pages if they are prepared to take the suggestions seriously and follow the exercises.

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New Book Turns Cleaning Into a Family Fun Responsibility Lesson

If you're sick of being the person who does all the cleaning, without getting help from your spouse, and putting up with children who think you're their personal maid, then Team Clean is the book for you. Carol Paul knows all about teamwork, having spent more than twenty years involved in her father Coach Wooten's basketball camps. And she knows what it is to have family members not behave like team players. For years, she tried to keep the house clean on her own, and she tried hiring maids, only to have to clean before they came. Tired of this situation, she realized if a maid service could clean her house in an hour or two a week, there was no reason why her family of six could not do the same.

And so the Team Clean formula was born. I don't want to reveal all of Carol's secrets for how to get your spouse and children to help you clean, and more than clean, enjoy it as part of a regular weekly activity. I don't want to reveal the secrets because I really believe you will not only benefit from reading this book, but you'll enjoy it yourself. For the cover price of $19.95 and the few hours it will take you to read this book and implement Carol's plan, you will obtain a return on your investment that far surpasses anything the stock market or any financial guru could ever promise you. Carol's husband Steve, her co-founder of Team Clean, has estimated that: "If you have two children, three years apart, and they move out when they are eighteen years old, and you run Team Clean instead of paying for weekly cleanings, you could save $210,000 in those twenty-one years of raising the two of them!" And while that savings alone is phenomenal, you can't put a price on how turning cleaning into an activity that allows the family to spend time together will benefit your family, leading to bonding with your children that will keep most of those rebellious teen issues from occurring when they are older.

I know you're thinking, "Really-children who want to clean and teenagers who bond with their parents?" I know-I wouldn't have believed it either, but that's why Carol asked her four children, now teenagers and adults, to give their unedited opinions about Team Clean in this book. Not only are they wholly supportive of Team Clean, but they went off to college, shocked that their roommates didn't know how to clean, and they even come home every week still to participate. In fact, her college-age son Bucky says, "Even if I am not at home, I will usually find a way to get home for it. I will find myself road biking a few towns over just to make it back to Team Clean." Heck, Carol's kids have even had their friends want to come over and clean because of the fun and the rewards that come with it.

I won't get into the rewards, other than to say they are simple and easily put into practice. Carol sets some very clear guidelines around setting up Team Clean as a family activity, including the rewards part. She even goes into examples of what not to do. She applies common sense everywhere, foreseeing issues and emphasizing the importance of sticking to the guidelines.

Beyond the value of family interaction (teamwork), Carol offers detailed explanations of how to divide up the cleaning so it is appropriate to age groups-even two year olds can get involved, and not as a form of child labor, but so they feel important, part of the family, and are able to build their self-esteem through their contributions. Carol also includes charts to show how to delegate activities, and she provides details for each room of the house for what is to be cleaned.

In addition, this book is simply a lot of fun to read. It's filled with comical drawings, inspirational quotes, testimonials from people who have participated in Team Clean, and a frequently asked questions section based on comments Carol has already received from people who have implemented Team Clean.

More than anything, what stands out about this book is the teamwork. This is not a book that shows Mom the tricks of keeping the house clean on her own. It's not even about making your kids cooperate. It's about establishing a family tradition that will keep the family ties strong. In fact, this simple family tradition has led to the teaching of life lessons for her children. Carol provides a whole list of those lessons in the book, including "Taking ownership of a responsibility," "Learn to go to work on days even when you don't really feel like it," "Learn negotiating skills," and "Learn a good work ethic, not just to punch a clock."

Team Clean is going to change your family's life. In fact, it is a testament to the value of family activities. Not only will Mom get a cleaner house, but Dad will bond with his children, and children will grow up being responsible, secure, and ready to take on life as adults. Buy this book, implement its formula, and get ready for a fun life-changing experience!

A Book Review: Disconnected - Parenting Teens in a MySpace World by Chap Clark and Dee Clark

In this book, the Clarks address the issue of parenting teens in the 21st century. Like in Chap Clark's book, Hurt 2.0, they describe in-depth the development and characteristics of early, mid and late adolescence. This book is written from a Christian perspective using Scripture freely and presenting solutions from a Biblical perspective. Our authors direct this book to Christian parents.

This book follows the first edition of Hurt (2004) and precedes Hurt 2.0 (2011) which were directed at school and community workers. This Baker book publication was published in 2007.

Chap Clark teaches youth, family and culture at Fuller Theological Seminary, is president of ParenTeen Seminars, Senior editor of" Youthworker Journal" and author of more than fifteen books. His wife, Dee Clark is a family therapist and coauthor of two other books. Together, they have raised three children into young adulthood.

In Part One - Understanding Today's Adolescent Journey, the Clarks address how the journey has changed since we were teenagers. Early in the 20th century, there were children and adults. By the middle of the century the transition between children and adults was no more than five years. Today teens endure a transition that lasts as long as 15 years or more. While many adults of our day have a hard time recognizing the difference, the Clarks make the case that as a society our youth suffer from "systemic abandonment". By "systemic abandonment", they mean that parents spend more money on things and spend more time taking children to events, but do not spend quality time with their children. Chap and Dee say that we "have led our children into an environment where they have never been more ill-equipped to handle the world we have handed them." P. 72

Adolescents have three tasks to perform as a part of "Individuation"- answering these questions: Who am I? What power do I really have? Where do I fit? According to social scientists, adolescence begins with the average age of puberty in a community (biology) and ends when they have achieved "individuation" (culture). Pre 1900 puberty averaged at age 14+ and individuation occurred at age 16. In 1980 puberty averaged at age 13 and individuation occurred at age 18. Finally, in 2007 the average age of puberty was 12 and individuation occurred in the mid-20s. p. 63 Now, puberty may begin as early as 11 years old.

Part Two - Parenting Through the Seasons explores different seasons of life. Quoting Ecclesiastes 3:1-8 the authors make the point that there are different seasons in the lives of our children. Our authors indicate that parents have five tasks: understanding, showing compassion, "boundarying," charting/guiding and launching into adulthood. In four successive chapters they present childhood, early adolescence (middle school), mid-adolescence (high school) and late adolescence (young or emerging adults). They present an illustration of the process in the form of a tight rope; childhood and adulthood are on either side (dependence and interdependence) while adolescence is a long tightrope where they are alone to work on the tasks of individuation (independence). During that time these teens need family stability and safety which includes a home where the parents are in charge and, they add, a home that is fun.

Mid-adolescents respond to abandonment by forming their own "underground family" with their friends. Chap and Dee spend a chapter contrasting what teens say, how parents interpret it and what the teens really mean. I am a bit hesitant to endorse this entire chapter, but what I do take away from this chapter is that we need to listen to our young people and continue the conversation to ascertain what they really mean. They may not even know what they mean.

Finally in the last chapter, the Clarks discuss their model of successful parenting - Parenting As Partnership - The Three Levels of Partnership. Using 1 Corinthians 12:27, they recognize that as Christians, parents are a part of the Body of Christ. As an individual we "partner with Christ"; as a couple we "partner with our spouse - both of whom are personally "partnering with Christ". When children arrive in the home the next level of partnership appears. Finally, they recommend forming a group of families who are accountable to each other and have a loving interest in all the members of the group. This is how they see parenting children "taking a village." When Chap referenced this in Hurt 2.0, I was a bit hesitant because Hurt and Hurt 2.0 were directed at the community and schools. However, in this book, addressing the parents who have the option of including or excluding other families in their level of partnership, I am more comfortable with this idea as it is based on Scriptural principles. He called these other individuals / families "soulmates" and emphasizes that they are "soulmates" of both spouses, not just one of them. They conclude with the following:

1. "Each parent must seek to know, love, and follow Jesus Christ.

2. Both parents must be a cohesive and impenetrable unit of strength and love.

3. The family must be surrounded by intimate friends in community, or soul mates and

4. Single parent families need soul mates." P. 192-193

My concerns regarding how Dr. Clark viewed family and church (review of Hurt 2.0) have been largely relieved. In addition to addressing Christian parents in Disconnected, he has taken this model to the community and school leaders in the form of the 5:1 project - five adults in a positive relationship with each teen( http://www.parenteen.org ). Certainly in a Christian context, we have more reason to believe that God will be pleased to bless our efforts, and yet salvation is of the Lord. Also, the Clarks have spent some time with the cause and have put forth some practical ways that can help parents, especially Christian parents, to establish a home that nurtures our young.

Maggie Dail offers online services through the Center for Neuro Development and Family Academy Online. She and her husband, Ronnie, make their home in Bartlesville, Oklahoma. The Center is affiliated with Academy Northwest and Family Academy. They home schooled two foster sons and have worked with home schooling families for over 20 years. Maggie earned her M.A. in Special Education in 1989 and has taught for nearly 40 years.

Homeschool and neurodevelopmental assessments, brain training and other services - by Skype / Phone / E-mail - http://www.centerforneurodevelopment.com

Academy Northwest is a state approved private extension program for homeschoolers and accredited by the Northwest Accreditation Commission. Family Academy offers an online parent course: Able to Teach